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Become
a master of G Spot Sex
and feel confident sleeping with any woman you want. Discover easy
to master techniques
to give her a G Spot orgasm and boost your sexual confidence.
Once you have seen the reaction you get from giving women these full
body orgasms you will feel confident enough to approach any woman in a
bar or club knowing your going to be the best lover she's ever had. Cunnilingus
- Tips for Pleasing Her How To Be Irresistible (Men or Women) Cunnilingus if performed correctly has the potential to give women exceptional orgasms and many women actually prefer Cunnilingus to full intercourse in terms of satisfaction. To learn the art of cunnilingus takes a little practice and below we have outlined some tips to improve your technique below. The art of cunnilingus takes some practice but its practice both you and your partner will enjoy! Oral Techniques The Initial Lick
As a start, try licking her from vaginal entrance up her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina covering both sides, going up and down and vice versa can be a great way to start your love making and will relax her and get her in the mood. Holding The Labial Hold the two parts together gently
with
your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side
at a time Tongue Intercourse The majority of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside. Hit them with your tongue when perorming Cunnilingus by inserting it into the vaginal opening, then licking gently in circular motions combined with flicks of the tongue. Flicking Spread her outer vaginal lips with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently lick and flick your tongue across the clitoris and into the vagina. When doing this make sure go gently and see the response before being harder with your tongue. Most women need to be extremely wet to enjoy this as it is quite an intense feeling for many women. Sucking
Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and gently pull back her hood. Suck the clitoris (be gentle) and then let it go and repeat again. This can be an incredible turn on and will be very frustrating, warming her up for the other Cunnilingus techniques that are outlined here. Holding The Clitoris Take the clitoris in your mouth and suck on it gently, at the same time flick your tongue around it. This can be done very lightly or aggressively or a combination of the two (find out what your women likes first) this is normally intensely arousing when done correctly. Its as simple as A-B-C Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet when performing cunnilingus. This is very arousing as your tongue is moving in lots of different directions. You can use any letters you wish, not just ABC! Listen to the ones that give her most pleasure and remember them! Other points to keep in mind to make cunnilingus pleasureable are 1. Share a shower or bath together before you start to make sure that you are both clean and add gels and lubricants to enhance taste and stimulation if you wish.
2. Ask your partner what she likes. She can give you directions such as harder, slower, faster, more circles etc 3. Fill your own mouth with as much saliva as you can before you begin and never touch or lick the clitoris when performing Cunnilingus with a dry finger or tongue. 4. Don't go for the clitoris make sure she is warmed up and aroused. Try gentle kissing and licking around the upper thighs and vulva area and work your way up to the clitoris. 5. Use a variety of ways to arouse her. If you repeat the same motion, your partner can become insensitive to it, keep in mind variety with Cunnilingus and keep her expectations up. 6. As she becomes more aroused, insert a finger or two into her vagina as well. 7. Continue to touch and hold her as she orgasms and after and make her feel wanted and loved. 8. The clitoris has more nerve endings than the entire head of the penis, so be very careful not to be to hard with it go gently and remember ask her all the time what she likes and doesn’t. Cunnilingus can enhance any relationship and most women love it and getting it right is all about communication. Following the above tips on cunnilingus will help you satisfy your partner and will enhance your relationship. For more information on getting more from your relationships with your partner please visit ==>http://www.net-planet.org/health/fromsex.html --------------------------- Oral Sex Techniques (Beginner) by Jon Gammon
If you have never performed oral sex, or fellatio, on your partner well here are a few good tips on learning this ancient art. Giving a "blow job" or "Going Down" on your partner is one of the most misunderstood sexual acts. In fact most premarital couples choose fellatio and cunnilingus as a substitute for intercourse. So if it is god enough for them, why can't it be introduced into the bedroom as a form of foreplay? One more thing to consider, with the threat of STD's and pregnancy on the rise, oral sex has become increasingly popular over the last decade. So you want to learn fellatio, well let me tell you a little secret. Fellatio is so easy to learn, with a little practice, a little will, and a little want to pleasure your partner; you will be giving your partner the best oral sex of his life. Men really aren't that picky in this department. Just the thought that his significant other has the eagerness to please her man, is all he cares about. So lets get you into the learning mode, and we will go over some basics. The most important tools for properly giving oral sex are your tongue and lips. After you have taken great care and time to your partners body, making him just want you that much more, you can now move in to the penis. Softly kiss and lick his entire penis. Don't put it in your mouth yet, don't be so eager. You wouldn't want him to go directly to the clitoris and attack it, no you would want him to kiss the outer areas of the vagina before make his move. Same applies here; make your tongue as flat as possible and slowly like the shaft like an ice cream cone. Start at the base and work your way up the shaft paying close attention to the head of the penis. This is his sensitive zone, so don't go all crazy there; just softly caress the area with your tongue. Now gently grasp the base of the penis in your hand and take the tip of his penis and place it into your mouth. Now slowly glide the penis as far as comfortable into your mouth. You may want to practice with a vibrator or dildo before hand, to find out how much you can take without gagging. Be careful not to use your teeth at this stage, your partner may not like it. Now simply slide his penis in and out of your mouth in a rhythmic fashion, and lightly pressing your lips around his shaft. Vary the speeds, and stop every once in a while to pay attention to the head of the penis before continuing on. Know before hand, if you intend to have him ejaculate in your mouth, or on something else. He may intend on ejaculating in your mouth and not bother telling you. Communicate with your partner to let him know what you plan to do. About the Author -------------------------------- Female Erogenous Zones - Secrets To Drive Her Wild With Your Tongue by sacha tarkovsky
One
obvious erogenous zone comes to
mind and we will cover that, but there are many others that are often
neglected! The French Kiss
2. Variety!
Make sure your kisses
are varied and that your partner does not know what to expect each time. The
neck The
top female erogenous zone!
Expose her
clitoris by spreading her
lips and gently pull back her hood, then suck the clitoris (be very
gentle) and then let it go. This can be a real turn on and will be very
frustrating for her.
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for Morons: How to Eat Pussy Like a Pro I
remember the first time I went
down on a girl: I was only a teenager and that first experience nearly
put me off for life. But it's like oysters and beer - an acquired
taste.
Firstly,
once you have become used
to the notion, and you start to enjoy the flavour and aroma of an
aroused, clean vagina, you can employ some fancy-pants methodology. Go
slow. Lick gently around her outer lips, then the inner lips. Leave her
clit alone for a minute as she will enjoy the agonising ecstasy of
waiting for the intense feeling that tongue-on-clit massage produces.
Insert a finger gently as you are doing this gentle licking. As she
rocks her hips, take this as a signal to be a little firmer. Also,
don't be afraid to nibble her cunt lips with your teeth. About
the Author ************************
For Men: The Seven Secrets Of Successful Sex by Rod PhillipsMen, if you want to satisfy any woman - every time, read on! Sex can be long, slow and romantic, or it can be quick, urgent and intense. And it often doesn't make much difference to a man's enjoyment whether sex is over in a minute or it takes all night. Indeed, sometimes sex can seem a lot easier if it is over quickly and we don't have to make much of an effort to please our partner. The trouble is, of course, that sex like this is generally very unsatisfying for a woman, and a man who adopts this as his standard lovemaking technique isn't likely to be enjoying sex for very long before his partner departs to find someone more considerate in bed! Here, then, are some simple guidelines which will help to make sex good for both of you - and that way, give you the chance to enjoy it more often! 1 Enjoy foreplay The big difference between men and women is in the need for foreplay. Even though many women like a quick, intense session of sex once in a while, we know that on average it takes between ten and twenty times as long for a woman to become aroused and ready for intercourse as it does for a man. And even though a woman's vagina may get wet very quickly, most women need a period of foreplay before they are emotionally ready for penetration. What this means in practice is that foreplay needs to last for at least ten - and preferably twenty - minutes if intercourse is going to be a good experience for a woman. But here's the interesting thing - the huge majority of women who enjoy foreplay for twenty minutes will have an orgasm. And since a woman's orgasm is not only satisfying for her, but adds to her partner's excitement as well, you can see it's well worth enjoying your foreplay. So what does good foreplay involve? You might just see foreplay as a prelude to intercourse, or you might see it as an end in itself which culminates in orgasm for one or both partners - and that's a good alternative to sexual intercourse if you want safe sex, of course. But assuming that foreplay is going to lead up to intercourse, it can take several forms, including: Kissing - appreciated by every part of the body Petting - touching, stroking, nibbling Massage - a variety of pressures and strokes across a women's entire body using scented oils, feathers, silk, or nothing but hands Masturbation - solo or mutual masturbation Oral sex - fellatio and cunnilingus For men, it's a great idea to become an expert in the arts of gentle touching, caressing and kissing. Vary the pressure of your touch or kiss, switch between firm and gentle pressure, pause and resume - all strategies which prevent the foreplay becoming boring. But perhaps the greatest asset that a man can have during foreplay is expertise in the gentle art of pleasuring a woman orally - in other words, be an expert at cunnilingus. In survey after survey, women report that they like cunnilingus above all other forms of sexual activity. This is because it's a reliable route to orgasm for most women - much more reliable than intercourse, and in many cases it's easier than masturbation. It's also an act of real intimacy and trust - qualities which women appreciate in their partner. There are many websites which offer advice about the best oral sex techniques: for example,http://www.sex-and-relationships.com offers hints and advice on how to enjoy oral sex, as well as providing a lot of advice about sexual positions, written from the point of view of both a man and a woman. 2 Be sensitive to her needs Being with a selfish lover is a complete turn-off for a woman. It's no use you just going through the motions - either you're committed to giving her a good time or you're not. And being selfish isn't just about making a dive for her erogenous zones and satisfying yourself after a few perfunctory minutes of foreplay - even if she lets you! To give her a good time you need to be with her emotionally as well as physically, with your attention fully focused on what you're doing. Successful sex comes from being fully present with her during the act of lovemaking - being responsive to her movements, words, and feelings. If you're pleasuring her orally, for example, watch how her body shifts slightly as she moves towards her orgasm. These small movements indicate whether she wants you to move your focus, press harder or more softly, speed up or slow down. And remember that good sex isn't generally the same for women as it is for men: when you masturbate, you probably enjoy increasing the speed and pressure of your hand movements as you get near orgasm. For her, consistency and a steady rhythm are likely to be much more important until she's really on the edge of her orgasm. Only then will a faster rhythm and a harder pressure of your fingers or tongue, depending on what you're doing, help her over the edge and into the bliss of her orgasm. 3 Let her come down from orgasm in an intimate embrace When a woman reaches orgasm, it can be so intense that she needs a few minutes to recover and come fully back to the here and now. So after she's enjoyed her orgasm, let her rest gently in your arms if that's what she wants, feeling your love and affection before you continue with your sex. Remember the after-effects of orgasm are different for a man and a woman: most men can't get an erection again straight away, and may even lose interest in sex for a while after they have ejaculated. The whole idea of satisfying her before you take your pleasure is so that you don't just reach orgasm, ejaculate, turn over and go to sleep. The guiding principle is "she comes first!" Remember this simple idea, and you'll enjoy much better sex. After a woman's enjoyed her orgasm, it takes her body and mind much longer to lose their arousal than it does for a man. So, after good foreplay, and hopefully an orgasm, she'll still be sexually aroused, ready to enjoy penetration and intercourse with you. 4 Remember that penetration is important to her; make it special and do it elegantly Why stay in a hotel when you can stay in a Luxury Beach House for Less? The act of penetration can be just as important to your partner as it is to you: and you might be surprised to know that her desire to be penetrated by the man she loves and trusts can be just as strong as your desire to penetrate her. Many men forget this. And it's also important to keep in mind that this is a special act for a woman - one that symbolises love, affection and intimacy. So when you get to the moment of penetration, be sensitive and respect the gift she is giving you in allowing you into her body. Exactly how you approach the moment of penetration will depend on the mood of the sex you're enjoying (and the sexual position in which you're enjoying it). Your sex may be assertive, a wonderful meeting of masculine power and feminine receptiveness, or it may be a gentle romantic connection, symbolised by loving eye-contact as you enter her vagina. In either case, be respectful and if it feels appropriate, ask her "May I enter you?" A final word of advice - if you have trouble getting your penis in, don't fumble and fool around: be straight, direct and honest - just ask her to guide you in with her hand. Women hate an incompetent lover. 5 Learn to be a good lover; don't come too soon Premature ejaculation is a real problem for many men. And it's true that women often don't understand how out-of-control it can feel. In young men, it's often the result of being too excited and aroused - all that testosterone, and the urge to ejaculate quickly is quite natural. Greater lovemaking skill can come with age, but even so many men never bother to learn the simple techniques that could help them last longer in bed. All it requires is the decision to do so, and the will-power to carry that decision through, plus a little help from your partner. See, for example:http://www.end-premature-ejaculation-now.com And being a good lover means a few other things too: like ensuring your body and penis are clean before you have sex - the same is true for her vulva, of course. And respecting her wishes as to whether or not you ejaculate in her mouth during oral sex. And not resting all your weight on her unless she likes to feel you resting on top of her. There are many more such things which will make your lovemaking into a wonderful, memorable experience for you both. 6 Respect her feelings Men very often think that a woman "should" reach orgasm every time she has sex. In fact, very few women will do so - or even want to do so. The hardest thing of all for men to understand is that a woman may not even know before sex starts whether she is going to want to have an orgasm, or be able to do so in that particular session of lovemaking. Men certainly need to grasp that orgasm may not be important for a woman. Instead, the intimacy, the cuddles, the kisses, and just feeling her man inside her may be enough to give her great pleasure and satisfaction during sex. So don't get hung up on "giving" her an orgasm - it's her body, her orgasm, and you're just helping her to discover if she's going to have one that day! And above all, don't sulk if she doesn't want sex and you do. That's about as ungracious as male behavior gets. You have a hand, so go and do something with it, or ask her if she will help you out. 7 Talk to each other Talking
about sex can be very
difficult if you're not used to discussing intimate matters. But good
communication is the essence of successful sex - and non-critical
communication at that. Be loving at all times: if your partner isn't
doing what you want, but they are trying to please you, be kind and
gracious in the way you say what you want. A good model is to say
something like: "It feel great when you do that, but it would be even
better if you moved your hand up a bit." In this way, no one needs to
feel unappreciated or criticised. And if there's something really
important you need to say to your partner, talk about it afterwards
when the emotional heat has died away a bit. Then be straightforward
and loving; say what you want and need directly, openly and as son as
you can. Leaving things unsaid in the hope that they will go away will
seriously interfere with the pleasure you get from your sex life! About the AuthorRod Phillips is an experienced sexual therapist and on-line counsellor athttp://www.sex-and-relationships.com ***********************
The Slow And Sexy Kiss by Hunter CrowellThe kiss is a stamp of your love. It is a way of showing your love, your care, and your affections to your partner. While you kiss the tension in your lip should neither be overtly tight or too loose. If it is too loose, it will look frivolous and lazy and if you are too tight it could sense your nervousness and self consciousness. In a humorous note, kissing is like posting an application at the top for the position at the base. Don't look at kissing as a route towards excellent sex. Kissing by itself is an act of pleasure which may or may not lead to sex. Let's look at the basic kiss: See that your lips are moist. You need to get your lips wet by running your tongue once over them before you kiss. Stand close to your partner. As your lips get closer, incline your head slightly to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of theirs. See the direction in which your partner is tilting her head and you can tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Ideally your nose should touch her cheek as your lips make contact. When you touch the other person's lips and you stretch your tongue out a bit, your mouths will instinctively open up. Open your mouth slightly and place your lips gently over her lips. Move your lips in a slow circular motion or just leave them still and suck the lower lips gently and succulently. Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. When you close your eyes you are concentrating on the pleasure of being intimate with your partner's lips. You can look directly at her eyes as you kiss or break the kiss, but the process of kiss should be savored with closed eyes as you 'feel' the pleasurable sensations with your eyes closed. While kissing, you can put one hand on your partner's waist and the other against the middle of their back. You can cup her face in your hands, put them around their waist, put them around your partner's neck, hold her upper or lower arms or run your fingers through her hair. If you are nervous about the first kiss and would like to go for a 'care for you a lot' or 'miss you' kiss rather than the erotic kiss, then you can go for the 'closed kisses'. Here instead of opening your lips, you keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know that you respect her boundaries but still you love her and feel that she is one special person in your life. In the French kiss, the tongue has a more considerable role, than the lips which is why you part your lips slightly. Once you have started kissing, you should slip your tongue in hers or vice versa. Don't let your tongue go limp but play it around hers or playfully her tongue out with yours. Push her tongue back into yours and so on. Tongue wrestle playfully. Circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of hers. Repeat her actions if she moves her tongue differently. Play tango with her tongue. If she flicks her tongue over yours, or if she thrusts her tongue inside your mouth, repeat the same action. The romantic kiss: When your lips meet, keep them parted slightly and press gently against your partner's lips. Tilt your head slightly to one side, so that your nose does not get in the way. The next step is intention. Give a slight peck on the lips and move away. Don't move in haste, drift away slowly all the while holding her hands and look deep into her eyes. The passionate kiss: If it is a more intimate kiss, then linger your lips around hers for a while. Then suck the upper lip and the lower lip. Again the intensity of the kiss should be decided by your comfort level. Having tested her lips, you can explore further-just lick them together and slightly caress the areas around her mouth or as the sexologists call it, oral region. The kiss value can be enhanced by devouring a chocolate or any other succulent fruit. Keep a piece of chocolate in your mouth and keep on transferring it to her mouth and back again till the chocolate melts and you are madly sucking each other's tongue. The perfect kiss: The perfect kiss starts out slowly and picks up as you become involved. A good kiss will flow, it does not stand and it does not end abruptly. Each peck has to be relished and enjoyed. Each kiss should be gentle and easy. Caress her face or give a gentle hug. It will be one of the pleasurable experiences you will have. Lean over to smell your partner's hair. The moment the tip of your nose touches her hair, kiss your partner's head. Gently go to the ear. Nibble the rim of the ear with your lips and breathe gently. Purr in her ears. Utter sexy sweet nothings. Switch to the neck. Plunge into the nape and gently bite the skin there. With a series of little bites, make your way to the corner of the lips. Lift your lips slightly away and zero in. About the Author Hunter Crowell is a researcher, marketer, avid kisser & creator of French Kissing Techniques, a site setup to help everyone find useful and accurate information related to being a great kisser. Visit his site at http://www.how-to-kiss-explained.com ******************* The Lowdown: A Short Guide on Going Down on Your Woman by Brian McDonaldPerforming oral sex is one of the best things you could do for a woman - but only if you do it right. Not sure where to start? Here are a few basic tips: 1. If you're still not used to the taste or smell of a lady, don't start complaining. It's a good idea to shower together, so you can wash her genital area while getting some serious foreplay done. 2. Teasing is key. Although action on her clitoris is the main event, it's more pleasurable for her if you stimulate her inner thighs and vaginal area first. It's good to start kissing her inner thighs, then to move on with a slow lapping motion from her vaginal entrance to the area above her clit. When you quicken your pace, you can insert your tongue in her vagina like you would your penis. This feels great for her, although it's not the crucial moment. Watch her body language in order to determine the right time to stop teasing and start getting down to business. 3. Keep in mind the sensitivity of one's clitoris varies from woman to woman. Some women are too sensitive, feeling intense pain with the slightest touch on their exposed clitoris. Regardless of your woman's level of sensitivity, you have to find a way to stimulate this area (whether it may be directly or indirectly). Your tongue is best suited for this task because of its flexibility and pliability. Whatever you do, make sure that you end up knowing what she likes and what to avoid in the future. If it's your first time with a particular woman, it's best to keep it simple, and then ask her what she wants later on for future reference. 4. Don't make the mistake of stopping prematurely. When her hips are bucking up in the air and she's started gasping, DON'T change what you're doing. Keep at it until she climaxes. Remember - you only stop when she tells you to, or when you're sure that she's climaxed. Even then, you should still keep going at it, since most women like to cum multiple times. 5. When you're done and your woman is satisfied, it's important to let her know that pleasing her orally gives you pleasure as well. You can say things like "I love the way you taste" or "That was great! I've been thinking of tasting you all day!" in order to let her know that you like performing oral sex on her. About the Author Brian McDonald writes for DrDating.com a site filled with dating advice and tips about dating, love and relationships. DrDating.com has a huge library of articles about internet dating. ********************* Herpes- Protect Yourself From Genital Herpes by CD MohattaGenital herpes is one of the most contagious diseases. It is a STD- Sexually Transmitted Disease. Any sexual encounter with an affected person can get you genital herpes. Genital herpes flare-ups are quite painful and this disease takes a big toll on the psychology and affects relationships. Let us find out about how to prevent it. Genital Herpes- how does it spread? The herpes virus lies dormant in those who have got it. Suppose you have unprotected sex with somebody who is in dormant state, you may still get it. If you have sex - protected or unprotected with any body that has active sores of genital herpes, you may get it. Sometimes those who have contacted herpes may not be aware of that. That complicates the situation because they will unknowingly pass on the virus to you. Let us find out about what you can do? Genital Herpes-protect yourself To protect yourself from genital herpes you should avoid multiple partners. There is no way you can guarantee that one of your many partners is not having genital herpes. Have monogamous relationship. If you have a new partner, try to find out if she/he has had any symptoms of genital herpes. This may sound difficult, but there are no easy options. Use latex condoms. Avoid oral sex because that is always unprotected. Herpes never leaves you once you get it. Please protect yourself. Learn more about -Genital herpes Simplex This article is only for informative purposes. This article is not intended to be a medical advise and it is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult your doctor for your medical concerns. Please follow any tip given in this article only after consulting your doctor. The author is not liable for any outcome or damage resulting from information obtained from this article. Related link :-
1-Herpes Simplex : Complications 2-Herpes Simplex : Treatment About the AuthorThe author C.D.Mohatta writes on skin problems, treatments and skin care. For more info about getting good skin, visit- http://www.doctorgoodskin.com/. Also find solutions to wrinkles, scars, skin blemishes and spots, etc. For keeping your skin looking good find out more about skin care products. ************************
Cunnilingus: Oral Sex upon a Vulva by Paul LeonardScallops, Clams, Oysters and Sea Shells what do they all have in common? They're all... sea shells (Whatever!). Let's start this with a bit of facts or fiction maybe. Well, in my experience I really love scallops especially when it's steamed or baked. The time you will open the shell and use your tongue and teeth by getting that thing inside is the best part than chewing. Anyway, it's like you're chewing a gum here, a different kind of gum. But I think the best clam I ever tasted would be Joanna's (oops... I'm sorry), she's my ex-girlfriend and her clam would be the most scorching one! This is the first time I had sex and I'm only thirteen that time and I really love scallops and clams ever since. But this time when Joanna opened up her wide open clam, it seems like I don't wanna let it go and spoon it right away. I hugged her wide massive hips then put my head on the middle of her worth and get the tip my tongue deep inside the hottest clam in the world, whatsoever we called... Vagina. That's the time I called myself the Cunnilingush. Cunnilingus is the fine art of making love to a vagina with your mouth and tongue. It is a delicate skill, requiring patience, practice and dedication to get it right, but any woman you learn to do it right for will appreciate you all the more for it. The Penis and the Vulva What applies to the penis applies to the vulva. Anyway, everyone is different, requiring a different touch to make its owner happy. But to make miss vagina satisfy with a lot of pleasure more than a monster cock is... the tongue. Few tools can equal the tongue for the amount of pleasure it can deliver to a happy vagina. If you know what the vulva looks like, you can also identify with some precision: labia majora, labia minora, moris veneris, urethra, clitoris, clitoral hood and perineum. Be Patient! Don't go after the clitoris like a wild shark attacking for clams. Quite often at first, the clitoris is far too sensitive for direct stimulation. Lick around it, stimulating the hood, teasing her inner labia, tasting her. Take your time and listen to her. Some women make noise, and some do not. It will be a while before you learn exactly what your lover prefers as far as oral sex is concerned. Some women may like additional stimulation - a finger or two into the vagina, or perhaps even the anus. She may want your hands to reach up and play with her breasts, or she may want your fingers to hold her labia apart so that your tongue can get at her vulva more directly. With the taste of that thing you're on a ride! If the taste or smell bothers you or is a concern, ask her to wash first. Most people who enjoy cunnilingus agree that a clean vagina is a good, if acquired, taste. As a woman nears her climax, she may want more direct stimulation. In general, fast, rhythmic stimulation is most effective at causing climax- but there shouldn't be a rush to get there. Take your time and learn to appreciate what you can do for her. Some people are particularly turned off at the suggestion of cunnilingus during menstruation. If it is a concern to you, then wait. A tampon may well hold the blood back, as will a diaphragm, but some men can't stand the taste anyway. If your partner is healthy, however, there is no particular danger in menstrual blood, and some women find that orgasms during their period's alleviate cramps. visithttp://www.xxxoutsourcing.com *********************** How to Give a Girl an Orgasm by Jerry PickettIf your girlfriend experiences orgasms more rarely than a lunar eclipse, you've probably become pretty good with your hands and tongue or are realizing that you should be. While there's no substitute with most women for good oral sex or manual rubbing of the clitoris, there are ways that you can significantly raise your chances of giving your partner an orgasm through penetration. Just bear in mind that it may not be while using your position of choice. Granted, not every technique is going to work for every woman. Still, you might want to try some of these things if you haven't already: * Missionary position with a slanted pelvis. Get her to lie down on her back and tilt her pelvis upwards. You can secure it there either with your hands or by placing a pillow under her buttocks. This angle allows you to reach the clitoris more easily than without the tilt. * Have her flex her muscles. The muscles of the pelvic floor, that is. It certainly helps for her to have those muscles strong in the first place, as the extra friction caused gives both partners more pleasure. If she is unable to hold this for an extended amount of time, she can try closing her legs after penetration (so your legs are positioned outside of hers). This also causes friction that engages the clitoris more than usual. * Let her be on top. Some men don't like this position because of some kind of perceived power issues, but when the woman is able to manipulate the penis towards the g-spot, the chances of orgasmic success are greater. And is it really so bad? When you start to learn techniques like these, you realize how moronic the argument is that you must have a large penis in order to satisfy. You need to think more scientifically, such as, "what angle is going to be most effective in hitting the clitoris"? Start thinking that way and the both of you will begin to have great sex together in no time. These are some very useful starter tips, but if you're interested in going further and becoming an orgasm master, you'll probably want to check out this book of 232 great sex techniques at Orgasmology.com. About the AuthorJerry Pickett is an avid student of both sex and sexual disorders. |
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